“What prevents people from becoming autonomous, fulfilled, and ultimately happy is their refusal to open themselves to experiences that are new and unfamiliar.” Carl Jung
The modern cis dating market is almost a Mad-Max Thunder Dome dystopia. Anyone who has been in the cis dating market for some time finds to his dismay that cis-women in the modern dating market have more issues than Time magazine. It is a ruthless winner-takes-all-situation. Cis-women are hyper judgmental beings, and men have been reduced to being circus performers who have to constantly entertain the cis-women non-stop or face rejection.
Modern women have a plethora of issues which make them caustic; it can even be argued that modern cis-women would not get any male attention if the almighty love hormones were not at play. Add to that the vast majority of cis-women do not act feminine, care little about their appearance, and do not know how to respond to male affection appropriately.
Enter the Trans-woman. The first thing that you have to understand is that, despite what the mass media and the society says, Trans-women are women, and in many ways they are probably the only women around. A Trans-woman, due to her unique position of being born in the wrong body, understands the needs and desires of men in ways that are impossible for an average cis-woman.
A Trans-woman responds to male affection with feminine gratitude, which is rare among your average cis-woman. Cis-women, with their mentality of entitlement, conclude that male affection and attention are their birthright, and hence treat the men around them like toys to be played with and discarded at will.
Trans-women are also very attractive, and a simple overview of a Trans dating forum will prove that the cultural myths about Trans-women are just petty lies that have no truth in reality. Trans-women take much better care of their appearance than the slovenly modern cis-woman.
The average man is so disillusioned with the dating market that he can be forgiven for his lack of enthusiasm. In fact, many men have just given up and are no longer interested in finding their soul mate. Men cannot be blamed for what is essentially the caustic nature of cis-women. However, men would be losing out if they allowed their lack of enthusiasm to stop them from trying Trans dating. Men have to understand that cis dating has reached its end, and Trans dating in the way of the future. It is about time that dating was about love and fun, rather than joyless work as cis dating has become.
It was said by some poet in the past that true love does not change the beloved but rather alters itself for the beloved. With cis-women it is impossible with their checklist of demands. Maybe if you whole heartedly accept Trans dating then you might get a love that also accepts you unconditionally for who you are and not what you pretend to be.