Showing posts with label Transgender. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Transgender. Show all posts

Friday, October 14, 2016

Effective Ways of Transsexual Dating



The dating has different ways in which a lover can always express of what is in their heart. Through this, they can have ways to satisfy their emotions. For they just always communicate through phone calls, video calls and or by email. By this means, they cannot fully satisfy their feelings towards each other.

What is Transsexual Dating?

If two lovers are always away from each other they can probably feel cold even if how they tried to be close. The feeling of being near to each other is the most way to feel the oneness of their heart.





Being romantic with your Transsexual Date is another way of dating that has a memory done during the dating time. It is the most unforgettable moment to someone who love and full of emotions. In this manner, the person concern will be planning to meet in one area where they are going to express their love through eating their favorite’s food, or walking along the beach talking and holding hands together.  Alternatively, make known properly with each other through actual communication.  In addition, it is giving of flower and chocolate to their lover.



How Transsexual Dating becomes Effective

This is the most effective dating, for you will have the complete identification of someone you love. The more you will be together the better you understand your individual differences.


Most probably, Transsexual Dating can be very effective when you are only two talking and sharing your personal identity. The moment you share your time to which you love you can feel a deep emotions that you do not feel before. The main reason why this dating created just to be familiar with the one will be your lifetime partner. 

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Life as a Transgender



When one decides they prefer a different gender than the one they were assigned at birth, it can seem a bit obvious and thrilling, but there are some challenges that come with that decision. Before undergoing the complete transgender procedure there is a lot of teaching and preparation that is given to the individual so that they may be ready to face the decision and the consequences of their actions. These will include both physical and mental preparations, though most individuals who undergo this procedure will be 100% positive about their decision even before challenges come. The most important factor is after the procedure when most individuals are ready to face the world.They want to show how relieved and happy they are to be what they have longed to be for such a long time. To do this, they need a program that shows them how to get used to their new life style.

New identity- After the course of treatment, the transgender individual gets to take a new identity card with their new, preferred name. It will also include a photo with their new features. Whether male or female it will be good for people to know the individual and get used to their new identity; the earlier they learn the better for everyone. The new identity also helps boost their confidence when they meet people as they get to introduce themselves without any fear or shyness.

Social and voluntary activities–After the treatment, it is beneficial for the transgender person to get to socialize with individuals of their new gender by going out and experiencing different activities with different people. The transgender community has a great network and groups where individuals get to talk about their experiences, how they overcome discrimination from society, and how their friends and co-workers have come to accept them. Joining these groups is a must for transgender individuals as it helps them adapt faster and boost their confidence around people. Doing some community volunteer work also helps them to make people appreciate that they are not psycho, but are just normal humans who have made a certain choice about their life. This is also useful for getting full or part time employment in the future, as it improves the understanding that nothing but the gender has changed; being transgender does not affect the working ability of an individual.

Eating Healthy- Apart from everything else, after the transgender procedure individuals are required to eat well and live a healthy, fit lifestyle. They should try to eat food that will help boost the immune system and the reproductive system, as well as the urinary system so as to avoid complications in future such as infections and so on. Exercise is also recommended so as to strengthen the muscles due to the alterations and reconstruction that the body would have undergone. Finally, drinking plenty of water is very important.

Saturday, April 23, 2016

Femininity Guide for Transgender Women

Transsexuals have a yearning to live life to the fullest. This is the reason they are “reborn” when they get sex reassignment surgery. However, when they get a new lease on life thanks to the transsexual surgery, many transgender women are faced with the challenge of how to be a feminine. Women have a deeply ingrained need to look elegant and fashionable. There is a lot that goes into making a woman look stylish. For example, men often find a woman’s handbag to be a puzzling conundrum due to the variety of items that are found inside. Though clothes, accessories, and cosmetics cannot be ruled out as contributing to femininity, the following three points play a pivotal role in a woman’s life.



Understanding femininity

As mentioned above, femininity is more than what one wears or puts on their face. Femininity stems from how one carries their body. Words that aptly and precisely capture femininity would be, “your body makes you feel sexy, your face makes you pretty, your smile makes you gorgeous, but it’s your mind that ices the cake by making you beautiful!” Therefore, it would suffice to say that no amount of money in this world could buy femininity because it is largely a disposition.
Some transgender women are at times reduced to employing “femininity coaches” so as to improve their femininity. However, while the hardest task for being a female is this aspect of understanding femininity, it must to be shouldered by the transgender woman, regardless of the cost of hiring a coach.

Your movement and voice

Women do not walk or move slovenly; there is grace in their movements. Transgender women have to abide by such decorous body movement so as to stay in touch with their feminine side. As a transgender woman, if you do not want people to stare at you every time you saunter into a room, then you have to buckle down and train your body movements to mirror those of a female. At times, women don’t walk; they gracefully slide. Women do not take a seat by dropping into a chair; they gently sit down. Women do not sit down with their legs apart; the legs have to be neatly closed together.
When it comes to the voice, it has to be gentle like a falling feather. You can read magazines and watch videos like ‘Develop a Female Voice’ by Melanie Ann Phillips. You can also practice how to speak like a woman with a friend who is honest and unbiased. Whilst training how to speak and move like a woman, learn to constantly smile because it brings out your feminine side.

What you carry in a handbag

Transgender women find themselves carrying handbags, something that was probably foreign to them initially. Some examples of things that are a “must” in a woman’s handbag include the following: hand sanitizer, feminine hygiene products (tampons), deodorant, a compact mirror, lip products, cash, safety pins, a notebook and a pen.

Friday, April 22, 2016

Dealing with Emotions in a Transgender Relationship


It is quite a challenge going into a transgender relationship without investing a great deal of your emotions. After all, how could you enjoy love, one of the most beautiful feelings, without doing so? Well, even with such an investment, you would still want to take care for fear that you might get hurt when you finally break up. Furthermore, you would want to guard against possible emotional abuse from your partner or potential partner. Since no relationship is without its share of challenges, you would want to learn how to deal with your emotions, or those of your partner, when problems start showing. In the section that follows, you will learn some important tips to guide you in difficult situations.



Dealing with a nagging partner

You want to avoid going into a romantic relationship with a partner who nags constantly. Not only will the relationship be draining, but it can also be unhealthy in the long-run. Chances are that the relationship will end at some point if you do not find a way to address the issue or underlying issues. In addition, you will be dealing with an unsatisfied partner throughout the relationship. However, if you are in a relationship with someone who nags already, you do not want his or her actions and words to deprive you of happiness and enjoyment of life. You should discuss the issues and set limits that your partner should respect. Respecting each other’s limits will help your relationship grow.

Dealing with an overly critical partner 

A partner who is constantly criticizing will always find the opportunity to raise guilt in your daily life. This eats into your self-esteem and self-worth. However, you need to protect yourself if you are to grow and thrive in the relationship. One way to do so is to accept and learn from constructive criticism while brushing off the negative. However, you still need to maintain respect for one another if you are to succeed in your efforts. Better still, you can let your partner know that he or she is being unfair and is hurting your feelings when engaging in constant criticism. It may be a tall order, but you should try. Another option is to seek a relationship counselor for help.



Dealing with self-obsession

Some people, when in a relationship, forget about their partner’s needs and think only of themselves. This can be a huge hindrance to the growth of the relationship as one partner will feel slighted by the lack of attention. To deal with such a situation, you should reevaluate if love is still guiding your relationship. If that is not the case then you should discuss the situation to find a lasting solution, and if a satisfactory conclusion cannot be reached then you can consider separation.        

Dating a Trans Woman: My Adventures & Advice

I needed a change; the brutal world of dating had left me exasperated. I decided to try something new and fixed up a meeting with a Trans woman online. I got to the bar before her. She came on time. She was a statuesque blonde and remarkably pretty.



There was a mix of excitement and anxiety in my voice. We both introduced ourselves and got down to the usual dating talk that I have done hundreds of times before. However, this time the situation panned out differently. In all my dates with women, it was basically me talking about interesting stuff while the girl just sat there nodding her head and giggling. But this time it felt different. 

This girl listened to me with undivided attention and kept her smartphone away. She had many humorous stories to tell, and the time passed quickly. She did not put pressure on me to act cool, nor did she give me that judgemental gaze which is a hallmark of cis dating. The night went smooth, and we eventually went to my place. But that is a story for another time.
My experience with Trans dating was very good, and while I had no idea what to expect, I did pretty well. So here is my advice for all the newbies:

Normal is King: Do not be a weirdo. You have to act completely normal and take it easy. Do not ask uncomfortable questions that will ruin the vibe. It is pretty easy to be normal. Just go with the flow and everything will be all right.



Be Chatty: I have had many dates turn awkward due to neither of us speaking or there being long pauses. You have to avoid this. The conversation does not have to be deep; it can cover general topics and be pointless as long as it is fun. As the man in the courtship process, it is your duty to steer the conversation.
Do Not Make Her Uncomfortable: Trans women really have it tough in the world. They are constantly attacked by the mass media and conservative culture for things they have no control over. It is the duty of the man to make her comfortable and not ask questions that make her feel apprehensive. This is actually very easy to do. You just have to accept the lady as a full woman and you will find that this step will come naturally to you.

Trans dating is as exciting as it is novel. It is one thrill that has to be experienced to be understood. Trans women will definitely rock your world and will give you a totally new experience. The only thing that a man starting out on this journey of Trans dating has to do is to show up with a nice disposition to the date, have an open mind, and look for love. It is simple. It is uncomplicated. It is beautiful.

Benefits of a Transsexual Dating Site


Today, there are people who are fun of having friends online. It is the way where they can make their self-enjoy by chatting friends. Some said they could look for a partner online by registering on any TranssexualDating Sites.





What is a Transsexual Dating Site?

When someone contact to friend and can have a couple of relationship, then communicating them through internet. In addition, they can make enjoyment through sharing and exchanging of ideas.

Transsexual Dating  is the way of having internet relationship to other transsexual person that leads to romantic and long relationship. Nevertheless, they will still decide whether to have a serious relationship or to neglect the proposal of a person from the Transsexual Dating Site.

What are the Benefits of a Transsexual Dating?

* Meet friends online and have friends to share with problems and happiness.

* Have a future partner in life from other part of the world.

* The way of communication is easy and fast. That can be in cell phone or internet.

* It gives happiness to those love friendship around the world.



Aside from the benefits mentioned, there are still most important to Transsexual Dating. It is one way of a very busy man to court with the woman who does not have time to make friends because of their work. Moreover, a woman who is only staying at home doing home-based job has also privilege on this. Besides, women can properly choose man and it with the men to women.

For these reasons, many long to register in a Transsexual Dating Site. For the access is so simple and can give the proper option of partner. That they will have a confident to find someone fitted to their desire. That is why many love chatting and making internet always because of benefits in a Transsexual Dating.